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| Monday, 25-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Suicide
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Suicide is not chosen; it happens
when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain
Thats all it about. You are not a bad person, or crazy, or weak, or flawed, because you feel suicidal. It doesnt even mean that you really want to die - it only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. If I start piling weights on your shoulders, you will eventually collapse if I add enough weights... no matter how much you want to remain standing. Willpower has nothing to do with it. Of course you would cheer yourself up, if you could.
Whether or not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be bearable to someone else, may not be bearable to you. The point at which the pain becomes unbearable depends on what kinds of coping resources you have. Individuals vary greatly in their capacity to withstand pain.
When pain exceeds pain-coping resources, suicidal feelings are the result. Suicide is neither wrong nor right; it is not a defect of character; it is morally neutral. It is simply an imbalance of pain versus coping resources.
You can survive suicidal feelings if you do either of two things: (1) find a way to reduce your pain, or (2) find a way to increase your coping resources. Both are possible.
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| Saturday, 23-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Morning Dew
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I'm totally out of idea. Everyday, thinking out loud what to shoot and where to shoot. So, this picture is juz for the sake of updating todays entry ........
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| Thursday, 21-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Feeding hands
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fish feeding session. bored to death kinda picture 0)
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| Tuesday, 19-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Berjalan Jalan Petaling
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Sorry guys if these image look a bit soft. Can't really live with my camera noise. So as usual, Neat Image is my best friend again. Duhhhh.... How I wish to get myself a DSLR now. Even if managed to get one, I think I'll be consuming maggie for the next couple of months.
Neway, this is Petaling Street or some may call it PS Boutique. Kat sini MACAM-MACAM PON ADAAAA. Its my favorite hangout especially when looking for dvds, tshirt, seluar and handphone related stuff.
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| Monday, 18-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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1st Elements : FIRE
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I really dont know whether it will catch your attention but I was thinking of creating altogether 3 elements of EARTH, WATER & FIRE in zzoux Fotopages.
Any comments are highly appreciated.
Cheers ........
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| Saturday, 16-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Let The Music Heal Your Soul
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These bunch of people did their live performance in front of Maybank Sg Wang.
Nothing spectacular about the picture. Nothing to be proud of I guess. But for me, I really like the mood captured. Calmness anyone?
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| Friday, 15-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Welcome back fasting month
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This is the month where u double up your "amalan". Its Tarawikh time again. 
tanda kebesaran Illahi
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| Thursday, 14-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Mixed effect
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Some landscape images. I really dunno how to further describe these images. Hmmmm i'm really no good elaborating stuff.
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| Tuesday, 12-Oct-2004 00:00 |
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Sunset & half dead tree
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I accidently spot the tree when I was on vacation few weeks back.
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ur bored to death shots is amazing incik... ni tgh boring ni.. kalau tak? hhhmmm...... power.....
